Kas tai yra kritika?


Sveikos,

Bandau ištaisyti tą žalą (nelabai pavykusį, trumpą tekstą apie Gyvatės metus) ir šį kartą pabandysiu parašyti labai keista tema – kritika. Taigi pagal „Wikipedia“ kritika yra:

Kritika (iš pranc. critique iš gr. κριτική [τέχνη], kritiké [téchne], „vertinimo menas“, iš sen. gr. krinein, „[at]skirti, atriboti“) – vertinimas remiantis kokiais nors kriterijais, tikrinant turinį.

Kritika patiriama beveik kasdien: mokykloje mokytojų pastabos, kartais tėvai norėdami kažką jums patarti, sukritikuoja, draugai, internetas, tačiau kokia ji skaudi bebūtų, mes su ja turėsimės taikytis beveik visą gyvenimą. Žinau žinau, nesu puiki rašytoja, tikrai nesu. Anksčiau niekuomet negalėdavau su kritika taikytis, ko gero lengviausiu būdų: išsiliedavau ašaromis, tačiau dabar suprantu, kad kokia kandi ir skaudi ji bebūtų, ji yra lyg kelias į tobulėjimą.
 Išgirsdami kritiką ne visada į ją atsižvelgiame, kartais ji būna tokia skaudi, kad supykstame ant kritiko. Tačiau kaip bebūtų – tai tikrai ne geriausias būdas. Gi mes jauni: mes mokomės. Ir tikrai kartais mūsų darbai nebūna patys geriausi, mus sukritikuoja, pasako kame bėda ir, kad kitą kartą tų pačių klaidų nebedarytume, ir tikrai, žiūrėkit: sekantį kartą nepadarome tos klaidos ir darbas iš ties geresnis. Taip mes tobulėjame, tačiau visada atsiras ir bus tokių kurie iš pavydo, patys apgailėtini ir neturintys talento, kartais tiesiog „laido riteriai“ pasakys kokią visišką nesąmonę, kad sumenkintu kūrėja. Ir kartais į tokius nereikia žiūrėti rimtai. Siekiant tikslo ar kažkokios svajonės visada atsiras trukdžių ir kliūčių, bet reikia išlikti stipriems: į tuos „pavyduolius“ numoti ranka ir kreipti dėmėsi tik į tuos kurie „žmoniškai“ paaiškina problemą ir pataria kaip kitą kartą atlikti darbą geriau. Na pavyzdžiui aš kritikuojančius skiriu į dvi dalis:

1. „Žmogiškus“ – jie paaiškina problemą, pasako, kas jų manymų jūsų darbe nepatiko ir į ką reikia atsižvelgti. Žinoma tai visada išliks tik jų nuomonė ir skaitydami kritiką, visada būkite tolerantiški.

2. „Pavyduolius“ – tai paprastai būna anonimai, laido riteriai, žmonės kurie nemoka paaiškinti. Į tokius geriausia numoti ranka, nes jie dažnai tik mesteli kokia repliką (iš jos jokios naudos) ir taip iš pavydo ar kokios kitos nereikšmingos priežasties.


Kartais iš ties geriau pasiklausyti kitų nuomonės, tačiau svarbiausia – būti tolerantiškiems, tai yra žmonių nuomonė, bet kaip žinome, visi esame skirtingi, visu mąstymas skiriasi (jeigu būtume visi vienodi būtų nuobodu :) ) dažniausiai geriausia išeitis – susitaikyti. Taip,.žinau kritika kartais būna skaudi, kartais kritikai „persistengia“ – bet niekada nenuleisk rankų!

Atsižvelk ir siek savo tikslų, svajonių – tobulėk. Galbūt būsi naujasis Leonardo Da Vinči ar Artūras Konanas Doilis.
 Kaip susitaikyti?


Kartais gavus kaip reikiant geros kritikos geriausia yra susitaikyti. Bet tai nėra taip lengva, ypač jautresniems žmonėms (aš prie jūsų). Prieš išgirstant kitų nuomones ar skaitant kitų komentarus patariu giliai įkvėpti ir pradėti lengvai išklausyti ar persiskaityti (jeigu skaitai komentarą tai gali persiskaityti porą kartų ir sukoncentruoti mintis į kritikuojama objektą, tada įsivaizduoti kaip atrodytų pagal kitų nuomonę, gal iš ties geriau?). Jeigu tave tai labai užgavo, ir „trenkė per širdį“ ir tikrai jauti, kad labai skaudu, geriausia mintimis nukreipti kritiką, tik kaip kito žmogaus nuomone. Na, gal ji nėra nuostabi ir maloni, tačiau tai tik nuomonė. Gal kiti mano kitaip? Svarbu yra ir kaip tu į tai manai. Daugybė jaunų žmonių sukritikuoti viską meta ir užgauti kritikos nusprendžia, kad tai ne jiems. O gal jie tik užgožia talentą? Gal jiem puikiai pasisekę, jei nebūtų taip reagavę? Ir niekada nežiūrėk į kitus: gal jie ir negauna tiek kritikos kiek tu, bet tai visiškai nereiškia, kad tu prastesnis! Gal atvirkščiai: tu tiesiog geresnis ir mokytojas ir kritikas tave kritikuodamas stengiasi tiesiog tau padėti, kad galėtum tobulėti, o jei tu visai netoli savo tikslo? O jeigu draugo visiškai nekritikuoja, gal tiesiog jį palieka, nes mato, kad gal iš ties ši šaka - ne jam ir tai ne jo gyvenimo tikslas? Nepasiduok.

 
Taigi svarbiausia: NEBŪK UŽGAUTAS KRITIKOS! Niekada neimk per daug į širdį ir nebijok, gyveni ir mokaisi!

Taigi tiek šiam kartui. Tiesiog tokia mintis temai kliuvo pamačius savo pažįstamą, kuri viską metė gavusi kritikos  :) Bandžiau rašyti iš visos „dūšios“, tikiuosi supratote ką turėjau viso teksto omeny. Sėkmės visoms!
(Atsiprašau už preitą nelabai gerą tekstą)
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Iki,

Kristė :)



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